Chapter Seven

Who Told You That You Were Right?

Building personal kingdoms inevitably produces another dangerous consequence. Once our identity becomes attached to our position, admitting error begins to feel like losing ourselves. Pride quietly convinces the heart that being corrected is a threat rather than a gift. What began as confidence in God's truth gradually becomes confidence in our own conclusions. Without realizing it, we begin defending ourselves with the same intensity that we should reserve for defending the gospel.

This is one of the most subtle forms of self appointed authority because it often appears as unwavering conviction. Scripture certainly calls believers to stand firmly upon the truth. There are doctrines that must never be compromised and principles that remain unchanging regardless of culture or opinion. Yet the same Scriptures that command conviction also command humility. Confidence in God's Word must never become confidence in our own infallibility.

The question every believer must eventually ask is not merely, "Am I convinced that I am right?" The more important question is, "Who taught me that I cannot be wrong?" Those are very different questions. One seeks truth. The other seeks self preservation. A teachable spirit remains open to correction because it recognizes that spiritual growth is a lifelong process. An unteachable spirit assumes it has already arrived.

Throughout the ministry of Jesus, those who struggled most to receive His teaching were often those who believed they already possessed complete understanding. The Pharisees knew the Law, studied the Scriptures, and faithfully observed religious traditions. Their knowledge was impressive, yet their certainty prevented them from recognizing the One to whom the Scriptures pointed. They examined every word spoken by Jesus while rarely examining the condition of their own hearts.

By contrast, the disciples frequently misunderstood Christ. They asked difficult questions, struggled with fear, and often failed to grasp the significance of His teaching. Yet they remained willing to learn. Their growth was not measured by how often they were correct but by their willingness to continue following the Master. Humility made room for transformation. Pride would have prevented it.

The Church today faces the same temptation. We have unprecedented access to biblical resources, theological studies, sermons, commentaries, and countless voices offering instruction. Knowledge itself is a tremendous blessing when it leads us toward Christ. It becomes dangerous only when it convinces us that we no longer need to listen, learn, or be corrected. Information can expand the mind while humility alone transforms the heart.

An unteachable believer eventually becomes isolated. Honest questions are viewed as attacks. Accountability feels unnecessary. Every disagreement is interpreted as persecution. Such a person may continue speaking frequently about truth while becoming increasingly resistant to the very process through which God often refines His servants. Scripture teaches that faithful correction is an expression of love, not rejection.

This does not mean believers should abandon discernment or embrace every opinion that comes along. Rather, it means we approach every conversation with the recognition that our understanding remains dependent upon God's continued grace. Even the most mature believer still sees through a glass dimly. We continue learning because we continue following Christ.

The safest leaders are those who never outgrow repentance. They remain willing to acknowledge mistakes, receive counsel, and submit themselves to God's Word above their own preferences. Their confidence rests not in always having the correct answer but in serving the One who is Truth Himself. Such humility does not weaken authority. It strengthens it because people recognize authenticity rather than self importance.

Perhaps the greatest evidence of spiritual maturity is not how forcefully someone defends their position but how willingly they submit every belief, every opinion, and every ambition to the searching light of God's Word. Before asking whether others are listening to us, we should first ask whether we are still listening to Him. True authority never fears correction because it knows that its foundation is not personal certainty but faithful submission to Jesus Christ.