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❤️ Behavior Resource Library

Access positive guidance resources, behavior support tools, social emotional learning materials, documentation forms, and classroom strategies designed for Early Head Start, Head Start, Preschool, and Pre-K educators.

Discipline That Teaches, Not Shames

Young children are still learning communication, impulse control, flexibility, and emotional regulation. Respond to challenging behavior with safety, connection, clear limits, and instruction. The goal is to teach the skills children need, not to label a child as bad.

1. Prevent and Prepare

Use predictable routines, visual cues, transition warnings, accessible materials, and enough space to reduce avoidable frustration.

2. Connect and Co-Regulate

Stay calm, get to the child's level when appropriate, acknowledge the feeling, and help the child return to a safe, ready-to-learn state.

3. Teach the Replacement Skill

Model and practice what to do instead: ask for a turn, request help or a break, use words or communication supports, and solve problems with support.

4. Observe the Pattern

Record what happened before and after the behavior, the context, and which supports helped. Look for communication, sensory, relationship, and environmental needs without assuming intent.

5. Partner With Families

Start with the child's strengths, listen to family knowledge, agree on consistent supports, and review progress together. Involve program specialists when additional support is needed.

6. Individualize Support

When a pattern persists or affects safety and participation, collaborate with families and appropriate program professionals on a written support plan and a review date.

Important: Avoid humiliation, threats, physical punishment, or consequences that exclude a child from learning as a behavior-management shortcut. Follow your program's policies and applicable requirements, and seek qualified support when safety or developmental concerns persist.

Head Start: Social Emotional Learning →   Understanding and Managing Children's Behaviors →   Explore the ELOF →

Explore Behavior Support Resources

Find practical classroom tools that help educators understand behavior, support children's emotions, and create positive learning environments.

👀 Behavior Observation

Document children's behaviors, interactions, triggers, interests, and classroom experiences through meaningful observation.

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📋 Behavior Documentation

Record behavior patterns, classroom situations, teacher responses, and support strategies.

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😊 Social Emotional Learning

Support emotions, friendships, communication, self awareness, and emotional development.

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🧩 Classroom Supports

Create predictable routines, visual supports, expectations, and positive learning environments.

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🤝 Positive Guidance

Help children solve problems, develop social skills, and learn appropriate classroom behaviors.

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🌱 Self Regulation

Support calming strategies, emotional awareness, coping skills, and independence.

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🧩 Inclusion & Accessibility

Plan access, communication supports, individualized adaptations, and collaboration with specialists and families.

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Behavior Resources By Age Group

Find developmentally appropriate behavior and social emotional resources for different early childhood learning stages.

👶 Infant & Toddler

Support communication, relationships, routines, sensory needs, and emerging emotional development.

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🎨 Preschool

Support independence, friendships, emotional expression, classroom routines, and problem solving.

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🎓 Pre-K

Support self regulation, cooperation, communication, responsibility, and school readiness.

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Positive Guidance Support Tools

The Behavior Support Toolkit includes reflection, planning, routine, feelings, friendship, and self regulation pages.

👀 Behavior Reflection

Reflect on classroom situations, children's needs, responses, and next steps.

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📋 Individualized Support Plan

Create strengths based support strategies, document observations, teach replacement skills, and review progress with families.

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🧩 Routine Planner

Plan predictable routines, transitions, and classroom expectations.

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😊 Feelings Tools

Build emotional vocabulary and communication strategies.

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🤝 Friendship Skills

Teach cooperation, kindness, turn taking, and positive peer relationships.

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🌱 Self Regulation Planner

Plan intentional opportunities to build coping skills and independence.

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